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Surrogacy

If you and your partner want to become parents but are having difficulty getting pregnant for any number of reasons, surrogacy may be a good option for you.

This process allows you to have a biological child even if you’re not able to conceive or carry a baby to term on your own.

Surrogacy allows you and your partner to be paired up with a surrogate mother who holds the same views and beliefs about pregnancy as you do.

Once you’ve been matched up with a surrogate there are a number of steps you’ll have to go through to make the dream a reality.

The process isn’t an easy one to undertake, however, if you’ve exhausted all other infertility treatment options, it may be your last opportunity for being a parent.

Surrogacy

What Type of Surrogacy is best for You?

There six different types of surrogacy options available depending on your own individual situation.

They are as follows:

  • Gestational Surrogacy: This is when a woman is not able to carry her own baby to term due to a variety of factors such as infertility, cancer, diabetes, or hysterectomy. Her eggs and her partner’s sperm are combined using IVF, in vitro fertilization. The fertilized egg is then implanted into the surrogate mother. In this surrogacy option, the baby is genetically related to both parents and not to the surrogate mother.
  • Traditional Surrogacy: This method involves the artificial insemination of the surrogate mother with the sperm of the intended father using IVF. The baby will be genetically related to the father and to the surrogate mother.
  • Traditional Surrogacy using Donor Sperm: In this option, the surrogate mother is artificially inseminated through IVF with sperm from a donor. The baby will be genetically related to the surrogate mother and to the donor sperm.
  • Gestational Surrogacy using Egg Donation: This is when the intended mother is unable to produce eggs of her own or when there is no intended mother. The surrogate mother will be artificially inseminated with an embryo that has been fertilized by the intended father’s sperm. In this surrogacy option, the baby is genetically related to the intended father and has no genetic relation to the surrogate mother.
  • Gestational Surrogacy using Donor Sperm: In this option, the intended father is unable to produce sperm of his own or there is no intended father. The surrogate mother will carry an embryo that has been developed from the intended mother’s egg and the donor sperm. The baby will be genetically related to the intended mother and have no genetic relation to the surrogate mother.
  • Gestational Surrogacy with a Donor Embryo: In this situation, neither of the intended parents is able to provide either egg or sperm. The surrogate mother will carry a donated embryo that has been fertilized by donor sperm. The baby will not be genetically related to either of the intended parents or to the surrogate mother.

The type of surrogacy you use will depend on what your fertility specialist determines is right for you and your partner.

Once you’ve made the decision to use a surrogate you’ll need to find an agency to work with.

Should you use a Surrogacy Agency or Do the Legwork Yourself?

Choosing to use a surrogate mother in order to have a baby is a huge decision.

However, it’s only the first of many decisions that you’re going to have to make. Are you going to use an agency or do most of the work yourself when it comes to finding and working with a surrogate?

Working on your own may save you a great deal of money, however, working with a surrogacy agency can give you the peace of mind that all the correct procedures are being followed.

An agency will be able to help you find a suitable surrogate. They can also assist you when it comes to the medical and legal issues involved with using a surrogate.

If you decide to make all of your arrangements on your own, make sure that you’ve done all the research and understand fully the medical, legal, and financial factors involved with the surrogacy process.

Surrogacy Paves the Way to Parenthood

For couples going through the heartbreak of infertility, surrogacy is perhaps the only way they’ll ever become parents.

It’s important to remember that this process requires a lot of patience, time, and money in order to be successful.

It can be a very emotional time for both you and your partner, as well as for the surrogate you choose to have your child. It may take some time for you to find the right surrogate.

You’ll want to find someone who is healthy, trustworthy, and easy to communicate with.

Being patient and doing your research ahead of time can lead the way to parenthood for you and your partner.

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